Knowledge Is Your First
Line of Defense

Understanding the process is essential to making informed decisions. These resources are provided to help you navigate the landscape of family law in Texas.

Common Questions Answered

Texas imposes a mandatory 60-day waiting period from the date your petition is filed before a divorce can be finalized. However, most divorces take considerably longer.

  • Uncontested divorces (where both parties agree on all matters) typically finalize in 90 to 120 days
  • Contested divorces can take six months to a year — or longer in complex cases
  • Hiring an experienced attorney can help expedite the process by navigating court procedures and crafting legally sound agreements that are less likely to require future modification

In certain circumstances, yes:

  • If you are the Petitioner and your spouse has not filed a Counterpetition, you may file a Motion to Nonsuit to dismiss the suit
  • If both spouses agree to stop the proceedings — even if a Counterpetition was filed — you may jointly file a Motion to Nonsuit

Important: Texas is a no-fault state. If only one spouse wants to proceed with the divorce, the divorce can still be finalized.

You can begin the divorce process while pregnant, but Texas law does not permit a divorce to be finalized until after the baby is born. Because the husband is the legal presumed father, paternity must be established — either through genetic testing after birth or through an acknowledgment or denial of paternity — before the divorce can be concluded.

Yes. Texas has recognized common law (informal) marriages since 1847. To qualify, all three of the following requirements must be met:

  • Both parties must agree to be presently married (not an agreement to marry in the future)
  • After agreeing, they must live together as husband and wife in Texas
  • They must represent to the general public — not just family and close friends — that they are married

An informal marriage carries the same legal rights and obligations as a formal marriage — and requires a formal divorce to dissolve. Texas does not recognize informal or common law divorce. Proving an informal marriage is highly fact-specific; please consult with our attorneys to discuss your unique situation.

A retainer is an advance fee based on your attorney's hourly rate and the complexity of your case, paid at the time you hire us. Think of it as a down payment from which future attorney fees and costs are deducted as work is performed.

All of our retainers are refundable — meaning if your case concludes with unused funds remaining in your account, those funds are returned to you. We also work with clients to establish payment arrangements that fit their needs. Retainers may be paid by check, cash, or credit card.

Selecting legal representation is among the most important decisions you will make in a divorce. We recommend:

  • Look for an attorney who specializes exclusively in family law — practitioners who spread across multiple areas often lack the depth required for complex divorces
  • Seek someone with board certification, which requires at least five years of specialization and demonstrated competency verified by the Texas Board of Legal Specializations
  • Choose an attorney with no conflicts of interest — your lawyer cannot legally represent both you and your spouse
  • Select someone who is firm, organized, and a skilled negotiator — and who will contest unreasonable offers while advising settlement when appropriate

All marital property is either community property or separate property. The court may only divide community property — it has no authority to divide a spouse's separate property.

  • Separate property: Property owned before marriage, inherited assets, gifts received, personal injury recoveries, and property the spouses agreed to treat as separate
  • Community property: Everything acquired during the marriage, and property acquired in another state that would have been community property in Texas

All property is presumed to be community property unless a spouse proves by clear and convincing evidence that it is separate. This can be a complex tracing exercise, particularly in high-net-worth situations.

5 Tips for Saving Time &
Money During Your Divorce

Divorce is costly — both financially and emotionally. These strategies will help you navigate the process more efficiently.

01

Do Your Homework in Advance

Locate and gather important documents and financial records as early as possible. Bank and credit card statements, mortgage documentation, pay stubs, tax returns, retirement account information — your attorney will need all of these. Having them organized and accessible means fewer billable hours spent tracking down records, and keeps your financial picture clear throughout negotiations.

02

Be Honest and Forthcoming

Experienced family law attorneys have seen every situation imaginable. Discretion and professionalism define our practice. If your attorney learns about a material issue — a secondary account, an affair, a prior legal matter — in the courtroom rather than in your first meeting, the cost and complication to your case increases dramatically. Full transparency with your attorney is always in your best interest.

03

Use Your Attorney for Legal Counsel — Not Therapy

Divorce is an emotionally exhausting experience, and it is important to have a trusted support system. However, your attorney bills by the hour. Reserving calls and emails for legal matters — and working with a therapist or counselor for emotional support — will preserve your retainer and allow you to approach legal decisions from a clearer, more strategic mindset.

04

Maintain Communication with Your Spouse When Possible

If you and your spouse cannot communicate directly, every negotiation must flow through your respective attorneys — and you are billed for every minute. Even when communication is difficult, the ability to discuss matters directly — with professionalism, not emotional reactivity — can save significant time, money, and stress. Consider the hourly rate: you are effectively paying yourself that amount to reach agreement.

05

Treat Your Divorce as a Business Transaction

Your spouse will always be a co-parent to your children. The relationship will endure beyond the marriage. Decisions made from a place of logic, fairness, and calm — rather than anger or pride — produce better outcomes for everyone, including your children. Ask your attorney for perspective when emotion threatens to override reason. Focus on the future you are building, not the grievances of the past.

Common Family Law Terms Defined

These definitions are provided to help you understand legal terminology. They are not intended as legal advice.

Answer
A pleading filed to respond to another pleading.
Child Support
An amount of money paid for the support of the children, calculated according to Texas guidelines.
Citation
A document from the court clerk served on the respondent, notifying them that a petition has been filed and requiring an answer within a specified period.
Collaborative Law
A process in which the parties agree to resolve disputes without going to court through a series of private meetings and voluntary information sharing.
Community Property
All property in the possession of the parties at the time of divorce, except separate property.
Contested Case
A divorce or family law matter where the parties do not agree on one or more terms. An uncontested divorce is one where the parties agree on all issues.
Default Order
An order signed by the court after a party has received official notice but failed to appear or answer within the time allowed.
Deposition
A form of discovery where an attorney asks oral questions of the other party under oath, recorded by a court reporter.
Discovery
Formal requests for information exchanged between parties. Includes Requests for Production, Interrogatories, Requests for Disclosure, Requests for Admissions, and Depositions.
Fault Grounds
Legal reasons for divorce based on the behavior of one spouse, such as adultery, cruelty, felony conviction, or abandonment.
Final Decree of Divorce
The court order that officially concludes the divorce. Signed by the judge after a trial or prove-up hearing.
Insupportability
The most common no-fault ground for divorce in Texas — a formal way of saying the parties no longer get along.
Inventory and Appraisement
A comprehensive document listing the parties' community and separate assets and liabilities, along with their values.
Joint Conservatorship
Texas presumes joint conservatorship — both parents share parental rights and duties — unless there is a compelling reason to deviate.
Mediation
A negotiation process facilitated by a neutral third party. Any agreement reached is put in writing and is binding in a court of law.
No-Fault
A divorce without allegations of misconduct. Insupportability is the most common no-fault ground in Texas.
Petition
The document filed to initiate a divorce action.
Petitioner / Respondent
The Petitioner files the divorce petition. The Respondent is the spouse against whom the petition is filed.
Residency Requirement
One party must reside in Texas for six months and in the county of filing for 90 days before a divorce petition may be filed.
Separate Property
Property owned before marriage, inherited assets, gifts, personal injury recoveries, and property agreed to be separate. Cannot be divided by the court.

The Children's Bill of Rights

The following guidelines are not enforceable laws — they are a framework for dialogue between co-parents committed to protecting their children's wellbeing throughout and after the divorce process.

Neither parent shall speak derogatory remarks about the other parent to the child, or engage in abusive language the child can overhear.
Neither parent shall attempt to pressure or influence the children regarding legal proceedings between the parents.
Each parent will permit the child to display photographs of the other parent in the child's room.
Both parents will acknowledge the child has two homes, and cooperate to the greatest extent possible in sharing time with the child.
Neither parent will interrogate the child about the other parent, or discourage comments by the child about the other parent.
Neither parent will use the child as a messenger between parents on adult topics or attempt to gain the child as an "ally" against the other parent.
Neither parent will discuss child support matters with the child.
Each parent will permit the child to carry gifts, clothing, and belongings between both homes freely.

This is an abbreviated version. Contact our office for the complete Children's Bill of Rights.

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